Go on, have a braai. You'll feel great.
Recently
I read that 1 out of every 5 people are subject to some form of
depression. That means that now one could get away from
depression, directly or indirectly. If you’re not there, someone
else you know is. I’m normally a positive person and the word
depression is not a normal part of my vocabulary. Sometimes it
does happen that one of my clients do suffer from depression and
ask me about it. That’s why I decided to write this article.
Now how does depression fit into a health and wellness
newsletter?
There are a couple of reasons why I believe that it does fit
here:
• Wellness is about a balanced lifestyle, which is a healthy
body, a healthy mind and healthy emotions.
• Our emotions have a direct effect on our bodies.
• A lot of people (especially the medical field) see depression
as a disease.
• As a wellness coach, I get a lot of enquiry about depression.
Some other misconceptions people have about depression are that
they believe it is not curable. Once you’re a depression
sufferer, you have to cope with it for life. And it’s not only
the people who are depressed that believe it.
I’m using the words ‘believe’ and ‘feels like’ at lot in this
article, because I’m sure that most of these ideas are based on
personal experience and not on external evidence. Research
showed (according to Wikipedia) that 20% of all people suffer
from some kind of depression. Of those 20%, only a third seeks
out formal help. Of those who seek help, 90% get over the
depression.
So in this article I want to show that there is solutions, and
where to find it. I also want to help people to avoid the
confusion, while finding solutions.
As a trained counsellor, as well as a wellness coach, I’ll
tackle the issue of depression from the emotional and biological
sides. In my opinion, while working with only these two factors,
we could find effective solutions.
Let’s start at biology.
An Afrikaans saying says that a healthy mind lives in a healthy
body. For our emotions to function properly, we need to have
relative to great health. That includes all the normal stuff
such as great digestion and absorption, circulation,
elimination, etc.
In this case it’s very true. Research showed that depression is
linked to some key ingredients in the nervous system. The lack
of ‘happy hormones’ is one of the major reasons for depression.
These ingredients are biological stuff, made by the body for the
proper functioning of the nervous system. The best part of it is
that the building blocks for these ingredients come mainly from
food.
What we look for in food to increase is protein (two amino acid
called tryptophan and tyrosine), omega 3 fats, folic acid, B6
and12, and Vitamin D. With enough of these nutrients, your body
will produce the happy hormones (and more) we need for a
balanced emotional live.
Here is a list of foods that is rich in these nutrients:
Soy products, lean red meat, chicken, free range eggs, turkey,
fish, peanuts, almonds, avocados, bananas, milk, cheese, yogurt,
cottage cheese, pumpkin seeds, sesame seeds, broccoli, spinach,
cauliflower, sunflower seed, coffee, cacao.
You could also choose food supplements that provide these
nutrients. The range I personally use and recommend is
Herbalife.
When you want to beat depression, or if you want to help someone
with depression, start with something that is relatively easy to
follow. That is to improve your/ their overall health. With
excellent health, the emotional side of depression get handled
much easier.
Now it’s necessary to deal with the emotional side of
depression. Ways to overcome this is in my opinion not through
medication, but through counselling.
Here are some quick pointers as to what you should be looking
for in the overcoming of depression:
1. Find a counsellor that you feel comfortable with.
2. Find an informal support group (not only a single person) of
friends. These people should be ex-depression sufferers and
people that never experienced depression in their lives.
On top of this, live a full active life. Never give time for
self-pity, keep busy with meaningful things, such as a
fulfilling hobby or doing a sport. Give your best in your
marriage, family life, social life, spiritual life and career.
I know it’s not that easy as I make it sound, but it is
possible. Especially with depression, motivation levels are at
its lowest. That’s where a support group comes in really handy,
to keep going when you want to quit, believing in you when
you’ve lost faith.
If someone is looking for solutions on a lot of different
levels, the chances of success improves with each added effort.
Next time you enjoy a braai, think of it as a mood-lifting
experience. Not only do you enjoy you friends' company, but you
also provide your body with the building blocks (the amino acids
in the meat) of 'happy hormones'. Bonus.
If you want to feel great, right from the basic biology to
complex emotions, sign up for the personalized wellness coaching
at
www.health2u.co.za.

